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tiny dancer

I’m sitting here at my desk, my feet nearly asleep from sitting here most of the day. Which is every day, really. I only feel safe here at the desk, under the pretence of doing something. I like to narrow down the space I take up to thin slices, even in an apartment...
Stranger Things, stranger theories

Stranger Things, stranger theories

[major spoilers for the TV show Stranger Things below. don’t say I didn’t warn you!] So okay, here’s my response to a lot of fan theories circulating. I have to admit I’m disappointed with the meta about this show — maybe I’m used...

{195} The Power of NO

As I get older, I think one of the most subversive acts of resistance a woman of any age can do is say “NO.” It’s personal and political. I long ago said “no” to becoming a mother, and am judged by many the lesser for it; women saying...

{187} New Year Advent Day 4 (December 28th)

Determination: the act of deciding definitely and firmly After days of grief and courage, I think the logical follow up is determination. Determination is different from planning something specific, it the emotion at the core of the act of deciding something. Whether...

{185} New Year Advent Day 3 (December 27th)

Courage: mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty I was beating myself up this morning trying to figure out what a good theme would be to follow grief, but nothing came to me. After doing some creative work, I thought...